Youβve held it all.
(And made it beautiful.)
Even when no one noticed. Even when it cost you.
Now itβs your turn to come forward.
Midlife is not an age. Itβs a fork in the path.
A threshold that asks:
Will you keep going this way? Or will you come home to yourself?
Not every woman finds the courage.
To leave the well-worn roadβ
paved with shoulds and self-sacrifice,
marked by proving,
and pleasing,
and waiting for permission that never arrives.
To make her way back to herself.
To feel the moment where everything clicks and she remembersβ
Oh. This is who I am.
When we work togetherβ¦
Youβll remember that youβre the artist of your own lifeβnot just the manager of everyone elseβs needs.
Youβll learn to trust your own timing, even when the map dissolves and the way forward is uncertain.
Youβll welcome back the parts of you that got tucked awayβthe sensual, the playful, the entrepreneurial, the wild.
Youβll make choices from a deep, embodied yes. Not fear. Not guilt. Not habit.
And step by step, youβll feel free again.
Not in a running-away kind of way, but in a rooted, sovereign, Iβm comfortable in my skin kind of way.
There is another path. Less crowded, more honest.
And my hunch is that youβre here because itβs calling you.
midlife coach and soul guide
Iβm Brooke Hofsess.
Midlife Midwife.
For over two decades, Iβve held space for women to growβin higher education, workshops, retreats, and intimate coaching containers.
I bring the rigor of scholarship and the depth of soul.
Structure and intuition.
Inquiry and embodiment.
Academic and artist.
Both/and.
Iβm here to walk beside youβas you learn to trust your rhythm, speak your truth, and live from your own knowing.
Youβre in the right place if something inside you says:
I canβt keep going like thisβ¦ there has to be another way.
There is another way.
But you have to choose it.
Right nowβ¦
Youβre exhausted from holding it all together.
You feel guilty when you rest.
You fantasize about quittingβbut have no idea what comes after.
Youβre tired of proving, fixing, managing, and masking.
But on the other side of coaching?
You say no, and you donβt explain yourself.
You speak your mind.
You ask for help before itβs urgent. And people show up.
Your laugh, belly-deep, is back.
You write and create again⦠for the joy of it.
You feel at home in your own skin, maybe for the first time in years.
You stop waiting for permission.
Brooke gave me the permission I needed to jump through the veil of "someone like me could never do that!".
On the other side, I learned that not only am I good enough, but I really do have gifts that are magical, that no one else (or few others) have.
So I'm going to design my life to use and grow them as much as possible.
~ Maureen
Work with me
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THE MID-LIFE MIRROR
Part guided reflection, part private coaching. Be reflected back with reverenceβso you can see yourself clearly and trust whatβs emerging.
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TUSCANY RETREAT 2026
A retreat so rich, so deeply stitched into the fabric of time and place, that the only thing youβll need to do is remember how to breathe.ββ
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SECOND BITE
An intimate, 12-month group coaching experience designed to help midlife women step into a life thatβs fully their own.
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1:1 COACHING
Monthly coaching and practical magic for women in midlife who are realizing they canβt keep living at odds with themselves.
I help mid-life women stop asking, βWho will I disappoint?β
And start wondering, βWhatβs possible for me?β
Letβs not wait for resentment or illness to speak the truth your spirit already knows.
If something in you is pingingβtrust that and reach out. Iβd love to talk with you!
Midlife isnβt a crisis.
Itβs a wild, holy becoming.
Experience the second half of life as it was meant to be: Sweet. Curious. Delicious.